Anonymous asked: My grandmother just claimed that the responsibility for the number of fatherless children today falls directly on the shoulders of the women who decided to "spread their legs" for a man (who can't help himself, because he is simply "like a dog in heat)." Right before that she was parading around the house yelling about how my sixteen year old sister is a soon-to-be-pregnant whore just because she has been hanging out with her boyfriend for the past few hours. I mean, most of these ideas must...

[continued: …have been instilled in her in her early life, correct? So I don’t know whether to feel bad for her or to be angry at her… or both. I honestly didn’t know where else to go to find out.]

I think whatever you’re feeling is what you’re supposed to be feeling.  It’s okay to be angry and it’s okay to feel bad for her.  Maybe you can bring it up if you want, but I also understand that it can be hard to do that because I have a really hard time sometimes when my family is saying things that I think are terrible, so just do what you feel is right and best for you!!

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